Relationships.......

Relationships...What are they about ? What is the defintion? Does anyone know...WELL APARENTLY NOT IN THIS WORLD ...What the hell is wrong with people nowadays? I mean so many people are out there single, taken, or whatever but who cares because in todays society its like reltionships do not exhist. People do not understand the concept of being with one person, they feel like "Oh they love me, they will put up with my shit!" Well guess what...all that shit leads to people becoming all bitter (hence me jaja) or people just allowing it to continue which, FYI IS WRONG IN SO MANY WAYS! Then you run into the problem of being with someone and them being with you but since you dont REALLY know them ...they end having someone else on the side or have an actual significant other which by the way means YOU ARE on the side!Then you're left all alone and feeling like "BOOOO!" I mean I wish there was a type of service where you could go and browse and find out everything about the other person , choose the one and if you dont like it return it! jajaj 30 day money back gaurentee or what? jaja kinda like a car... you get to see all the different models and choose one and yea but thats just wishful thinking huh? I mean come on who really knows anyone nowdays when it comes to first dating someone? You think you know someone some what and what they are all about then your friends go shopping and see them holding someone else, SHOPPING WITH SOMEONE ELSE... BIG NO NO !!! Comeon what is that shit ... it just sux that nowadays everyone is a big ass S L U T O! So whatever happened to the old fashion way of thinking? I mean I completley understand that its the new times blahblahblah yea I know I like the change but I feel as far as dating that shouldve never changed...Whatever happened to being with one person forever like back then..no not the mike jones song jaja jk but back then when people would actually go out on dates and see what their choices where and make ONE DECISION after a while of dating someone...you know those days when you would be like omg this is him/her but now eveyrone is all messed up in the dating department because people just wanna get off and get theres with not attachment huh? Have you ever heard of the saying... "MARRIAGE IS THE NEW DATING? " Marriage is suppose to be something that is sacred! I dont know about anyone else but I am on a mission to find "THE ONE" whom I would like to spend the rest of my life with... you know the one you buy your first house with, you know the one that you have and raise kids with...whats wrong with people not wanting something stable and wanting to share apart of themselves? Is everyone just selfish these days and just want think about themselves or what? I guess Im just tired of dating these people who are way different pages than I am... and I know I am not the only who thinks this way ... prolly only a fewthink like me i guess... I wish that whenever I do find "THE ONE" I could just go and press the refresh button like you do on an internet page so that way whenever something goes wrong like a big ol fight you could simply refresh the relationship so that way you never lose the one you love. Just simply press the refresh button to get your dating page in your book of life brand new! Even at that I know whenever you press the refresh button you end up on total different site/page because of pop ups and all that spyware stuff but at least you all will be on the same page RIGHT?See it would be a win win situation... If only life where that easy huh ? just by the press of button things would get better but i guess not then it wouldnt be fun i guess anywho... Relationships are just hard in general I think but it sucks when whenever one person wants to work at it...its like HELLO PEOPLE... 50/50, half and half, meeting half way there? DID PEOPLE NOT GET TAUGHT THIS? COMPROMISING? ANYONE? HELLO? SHIT SHIT SHIT...jaja Well everyone there are my thoughts on dating or whatever I hope i made some sense to some of you all ! anywho till then I have my friends to keep me in good company which I LOVE and I LOVE ALL OF THEM FOR BEING THERE FOR ME! Remember friends will be there before ...during...and after a relationship but lets just say before and during cause we dont wanna think negative but just in case anything where to happen they will always be there... true friends are there for you and step in when the rest of the world steps out! I LOVE YOU GUYS !! anywho yea so I guess ill still be waiting for my one and only to sweep me off my feet ... its like kat says "your looking for that one pretty dress ... you know what it looks like ...you try it on for a while but then you keep looking until you find the right one..."I guess some people just try too many dresses and only have them on for like an hour or something like what jaja ok bi for now! everyone have a great day and great weekend!